I did some quick searching on the FBI Uniform Crime Report tool. WWW.UCRDATATOOL.GOV I really had hoped to find that violent crime rates were lower today then they were. And in some areas you are right. The UCR tool goes as far back as 1960 and comparing that to 2013 the results are pretty terrible.
…1960…2012
Population…179,323,175…313,914,040
Violent Crime Total…288,460 (160.9 per capita)…1,214,464 (386.9 per capita)
Murder…9,110 (5.1 pc)…14,827 (4.7 pc)
Rape…17,190 (9.6 pc)…84,376 (26.9 pc)
Robery…107,840 (60.1 pc)…354,772 (112.9 pc)
Assault…154,320 (86.1 pc)…760,739 (242.3 pc)
On a per capita basis the murder rate is lower, but all other violent crimes and violent crime as a whole is mor than double what it was in 1960. Your original statement did say when my dad was my age. That would have been around 1970 which the murder rate was 7.9 per capita, rape was 18.7, robery was 172.1 and assault was 164.8. The total per capita violent crime was 363.5.
I’m not trying to point out who’s right or wrong, I was curious about your statement and I’m pretty saddened by the results. While murder is down from both 1960 and 1970 and robery has fluctuated, its disheartening to see that rape almost trippled from 1960 to 2012 and as did assault.
To my original point though what you said about what the media says and how it appears to the layman is my point. What is a rational reasonable person other than the average layman. If there is enough information in the media to make us feel in danger, than it becomes reasonable to respond to force agressively. Of course I don’t mean to hunt someone down, but if you feel threatened and all the reports in the media feed into your mindset, it becomes reasonable to use deadly force when confronted with the threat of violence.
Similarly, my hapkido instructor was showing us various techniques for disarming knife attacks and when asked what he would do if facing a person with a real knife, he responded with “run away!” The best self defense is to first not be in a dangerous situation whenever possible.