I’ll try to express it, but usually someone jumps down my throat when I try, so pardon me if I’m a bit leery of doing so.
My stance, to put it simply, is that the freedom of the right of self defense is worth the cost. I have a similar stance on say, free speech. The price of letting people like Trump lie and Nazi’s march in Wisconsin is worth the price of real freedom of speech.
The right to defend yourself should not be restricted to incredibly fit martial artists, but to everyone. If a linebacker from the Jets broke into my house with a baseball bat… well I’m fucked. He’s faster than me, stronger than me and anything I do to him will be like throwing Nerf balls at an elephant. Except I have a .45 pistol and a M1 Garand. Both those will even the odds very quickly. Hell, those put the odds in my favor. Worst case scenario we’re at parity (if he has a gun), which is still a hell of a lot better than “I’m completely fucked so I hope he doesn’t feel like killing or crippling me today.”
I recognize the statistics, but, for lack of better terminology, I accept those as the price we pay. Am I in favor of better gun safety and training? Absolutely. Do I think flagrantly negligent firearms handling should be penalized? Again, yeah I think so in most cases. Accidents can and will happen, but when basic safety is ignored, I have no problem with those people’s rights being lost or at least suspended for a time.
It’s a case where I understand the opposing position. But I just disagree with it. I take a fairly dim view of restricting or abolishing rights, and let’s not forget it is a right, just like freedom of speech or religion. If people want to change that they need to amend the Constitution, but a huge chunk of the populace doesn’t want that to happen (and we can’t amend anything anyway, but that’s a whole other discussion). If people want to approach it intelligently, that’s one thing, but generally it becomes a lot of lies and misinformation. “Assault weapons” is just a made up term in the political sense. It literally means “guns that look scary or cool.” They aren’t “automatic weapons” or anything of the sort, yet people say it like it’s fact over and over again. But I’m digressing into the problems of the politics and conversation.
I’m happy to try to explain my position more clearly, but I think at some level we’re going to hit the wall of what I consider an acceptable cost for having a freedom and what you consider an acceptable cost are fundamentally different things. I’m not sure talking can really get around that point when it’s all said and done, but I’m willing to present my viewpoint on it at least.