Hey, was Kinkakuji any fun? I’ve been to Kyoto twice now, and both times I visited the same 2 things, Nijo Castle (MUST GO, I never get sick of this place) and Kiyomizaderu (primary+middle school trip destination #1…come here you loli fans; fantastic view…both meanings…). But my “quote” stands. Kids are super annoying when they are on a class trip.
Oh, and if you’re girl-watching, I believe that 99% of the most beautiful Japanese girls/women are gathered in Tokyo. The best time I had was to sit in a cafe at the corner of one of those Ginza traffic crossings (all cars halt, then people crosses in all directions) watching people. Coffee was like 2-3 times Starbucks price; totally worth the view. I had a chance to visit Kyushu–>Osaka, and I just didn’t see as many cute girls as Tokyo. I hope you have better luck, though.
But the thing I miss the most? Walking around in the city at night. Japan is completely safe, so I would just wander around streets, maybe dropping into every open convenience store to browse the goods. A different kind of zen.