I’d understand if no one wants to delve into this thread. It’s deep, and my brain is messed up.
Started nearly 2 months ago with a persistent right lung bleed - hemoptysis. It was bleeding pretty bad after Jen and I would work outside, then would clot up for a bit.Rinse repeat for months until it finally blew wide and the bleed wouldn’t stop even when I wasn’t working on the frop bog.
I avoided the hospital out of guilt. I felt bad thinking about people who were stuck in various bad circumstances around the world. The extremely ill people in Puerto RIco who deosarrtoy needed a hospital, yet here I have great access to medical facilities and I could technically live with this past situation with a very small chance of critical bleedI would not have a chance to correct if not the hospital already. Equally worried of my family coming to visit me in hospital and coming home sick themselves.
I just feel, messed up and confused, and I feel bad that I had good care, and I look all over the world at people who need medical help and can’t get it.
Hpositaod are always near capacity, but this was the worst I’d ever seen. The hospital was so overwhelmed we had a decision to wait at home hope the bleed didn’t blow wide open as has happened in the past or stay in emergency room for at potential 36 hours because it was crammed to the gills with deathly ill people. The heavy load of airborne viral and bacteria strains made making walking the halls dangerous. I had to keep my room closed all the time, and couldn’t only walk the halls briefly if they were empty and I wore gloves, mask, and full garb.
My parents of course wanted to come up anyways, but for the first time I had to tell then if they did I would deny them entry to my room because I could not stomach the risk they were taking to see me. I just want to cry, I feel so bad about getting sick now, dollars going to me. I offered to d/c some of my meds so maybe younger patients might get coverage or help. The doctor said it doesn’t work like that and to not think that way… but how can I not?
I think I feel guilty I’m alive and all my friends have died and I really need to go the frop bog and betterfly koi pond done, because I need to leave something behind that says the meds and time doctors out into me were worth it.
I’m not sure where I’m going with this. I am seeing a counselor, who keeps telling me I’m a good person and my life is full of life I should be happy about. But then I think of a single an elderly lady who needs hospital stay in zpuerto Rico I wish I could have brought her here and she could have taken my place
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One would think with how awful I feel phsycsilly, and inability to even take a shower without help (embarrassing) , that this would go to back of my mind. But it’s forefront all the time and I don’t know why.
Maybe if we didn’t have a soulless fascist dictator who hates anyone who’s not white or licks his feet, my mind would be able to figure something out. Little lost. I also feel like I betrayed my fish and frogs being gone and not here to heklp prep them better for Topor (their version of hibernation).
Sorry this is so long. Writing this late at night, despite a lot of sleep and pain medication I just can’t sleep. Not going to review this post or ill delete it and feel bad. But maybe someone here can give some wisdom to me no matter how unrelatedl. Apologies again for such a long post and displaying my heart though confused and messed u as it may be.
Thanks for sharing.