Damn dude, I feel safe in speaking for all here saying you’re a highly valued member of the forum and while we haven’t actually met in person I have a high regard for you. I hope you have some time to sort things out for yourself and with your wife, and if you need to talk things out I’d make myself available, if it would help.
Man dude, I’m sorry and scared for you. Know that you’re valued and we enjoy you here. It will be hard, but I hope you can push aside the anger, it’s a shitty emotion that can’t help you. Focus on the positives. You’re alive. You’re aware. You have friends.
We’re pulling for you, just talk to us when you’re ready.
Rich, I’m sorry to hear that. It must be devastating to hear that from someone you’ve been in such a long relationship with. I feel for you. Take some time, but as others have said, you’re a valued member here and when you feel like coming back, we’ll be here.
I’m so very, very sorry to hear that you’re going through this, Rich. And I want you to know that many of us, including me, are here with a non-judgmental, supportive mindset and a readiness to be there for you as best as we can. Whenever you’re ready. Just let us know what you need, in thread, or in private message if that’s easier for you.
Very sorry to hear that. It must be terrible having the world pulled from under your feet like that, regardless of why. Take care of yourself for yourself as you said. Remember that things will look up eventually.