I’ve been in the hobby for about 10 years. I think my collection hovers at around 80 owned games.
https://boardgamegeek.com/collection/user/Wendelius
If I had to guess, I would say the bulk of my purchases must have been between 2011 and 2015, or thereabout.
The first couple of years, I was exclusively buying a few games here and there to play with my sons. I think they were aged between 8 and 12 back then and I enjoyed the time we spent together.
A couple of years in, they were older and into a wider variety of games. I had disposable income. So I switched to actually wanting to try out new games pretty much every time we got to play. I started buying bigger, heavier, more expensive games and backing stuff on KS.
Add to that I started playing with Qt3ers a few times a year, and I “had to” get more games.
Fast forward a few more years and my disposable income isn’t what it used to be. Add to that the fact that I realised that those heavy and expansive games didn’t see more play than the simpler ones in our collection.
Quite the contrary, in fact. I likely have 20+ games which have only been played once or twice.
Over time, I learned what my wife my kids really love (deck and engine building, worker placement, economic games, hidden role games and many lighter games, Legacy games, …). Those other big games sit unplayed.
We met another couple who make sure all of their games get played at least 5 times and are played semi regularly after that. They are traded if they aren’t interested enough to do so. That kind of outlook helped me refocus on why I wanted to buy games early on.
I have 2 boardgaming KS projects backed, but didn’t back anything last year (and not the year before either I think).
I’ve started donating some of the games I won’t play anymore to our gaming group.
All that to say that I’ve tried to get better at shifting back the balance from collector (which is satisfying, but not why I started buying games), to a boardgamer with a games library.
Yeah, unfortunately for me, FOMO still kicks out in those cases. The 2 Kickstarter projects I backed are KS blinged out editions. I feel a bit dirty, but I couldn’t resolve not to get the fancier version.
Wendelius