When you watch professional poker players, they will consistently beat good amateurs, no matter what the cards (overall, there is some variability.) The main reason is that they are not afraid to lose. I managed to play a couple of times some years ago where some of the pros were playing. I would have a good hand, and they would go all in. Then I would think, I KNOW he is bluffing, there’s no way he could have a 7 and a K, and that is the only thing that would make the full house that is the ONLY hand that can beat me, but if I am wrong, I’m out. And I’d fold because I just didn’t want to risk it. Which they knew. The difference was that they didn’t worry about losing a huge amount, and I did. Which meant they would beat me every time.
The Democrats need to be able and willing to go all in. The Republicans know they won’t, and they win every time. Obama needs to be willing to say, OK, nation, I am calling in the Tea Party and telling them we are unwilling to choose cutting student loans, Medicare, Medicaid, SS, and other services instead of hedge fund manager taxes, millionaire and billionaire taxes, special exclusions for the most profitable companies in the world, etc. I’m going to put out there publicly, in detail, the choices with check boxes, and we will publish that for America. And if the Tea Party and their cohorts choose to check Medicaire over, say, hedge fund manager taxes, we’ll make sure America knows that is the choice. And then Obama and the Democrats need to say, No - we will not allow that. We simply will not allow it. We will not give in on this, and we think America is with us. And if you want to take America into default because you want to defend those special interests, so be it. We’ll work with you, we’ll give on some things, but you have to also, and we are going to make the entire process and the details extremely public and transparent as we go. But we will only meet you halfway. Period.
Now, the Tea Party would likely be willing to drive the bus off the cliff, singing God Bless America on the way down. But I really don’t believe the other hundred plus Republicans would. I have to believe that they would be scared to death of America looking at the tote board, seeing that they were siding with the rich over the middle class (and it is important that everything is completely open and clear and transparent so they have a hard time spinning it,) and kicking their ass out for choosing to side with the hedge fund manager making a million a day over their Medicaire or funds for their parents’ social services or any of the other things that will impact them.
That is pretty poorly articulated, but the point is, if the other side is willing to go all in, and you aren’t, you will lose all your chips every time. The irony of playing not to lose vs. playing to win is you almost always guarantee you’ll lose that way.