Kieron,
Thanks for the post. I do apologize for being so harsh, but I was angry. I still am, but I realize I probably shouldn’t direct that anger so specifically at you (or Tom Francis). I understand that you think the quote is newsworthy and I’m disappointed. I had really hoped RPS was…above?..beyond?..better?..different?..than that. I don’t know how to say it without sounding pejorative. It may not be possible to say without sounding pejorative. :(
I really want to address this, however:
You’re flat-out, 100%, dead wrong, and I’m a little insulted that you feel the need to pre-emptively call me a liar or insinuate that I don’t know myself better.
Because I have been in a situation where a developer has said something here that I wanted to either use in a story or, more recently, post on Fidgit. I have always contacted that person directly to ask beforehand. Always. I always have and I always will. And on many (most?) of those occasions, I was asked not to use what was said. In some instances, I was given something else to use. In other instances, I was left high and dry. In at least one instance I can think of, other sites had already run with the story and I honored the developers request not to use it myself. I know some people following this exchange will know exactly what I’m talking about.
The bottom line is that I have never used a developer quote from Qt3 without contacting the developer to clear it with him. The tone of this forum is that important to me.
Now before you think I’m simply being idealistic, let me also point out that I’m in a unique situation. I don’t know the environment in which you guys work, but I have the luxury of running a blog where no one is pressuring me to do certain types of stories or get certain amounts of traffic or say certain kinds of things. The people for whom I work at NBC/Universal have been ideal bosses in terms of letting me post on Fidgit what I think is best. Once they saddled me with that silly name – jerks! – they pretty much slapped me on the flank and let me run wild. I couldn’t imagine a more ideal environment to write about videogames and I’m thankful for it.
I realize this isn’t the environment many people in our line of work enjoy. Many of them are under pressure to do things they might not otherwise do to get traffic. And because of my unique situation, it’s not easy for me to sympathize with them. In fact, it’s a lot easier for me to be judgmental about what they’re doing. I’m not saying this because I think you’re necessarily in that situation, but I’m saying it by way of explaining why I jumped so quickly to being pissed off when I felt my forum was being abused.
So, again, apologies for being so rude to you, but I’m still a bit angry and now I’m mostly disappointed that you and I have such a different perspective on how to treat this forum. It wouldn’t be the first time I had an unrealistic idea of what Qt3 should be…
-Tom
P.S. Sorry for butchering your first name. It was unintentional. I have two close friends with children whose names are a variation of yours. Not that they’re named after you, as far as I know, but their names are a lot like yours.