Brad and I have history, and he keeps trying bring it into this discussion despite both of us being asked politely to basically let the old argument rest. I am basing my responses only on what he has said here recently which is this:
I’ve yet to find anyone (blob or otherwise) who doesn’t want women in gaming.
But here is the thing, if there is a core group within GG that believes in one thing, this journalism claim, they’ve lost control of the narrative. They haven’t had control of that narrative for a long time, and they take no accountability, no responsibility and make only weak attempts to regain control of it. Laying GG to rest is not a a step to solving a problem, but it is a step towards not adding to it. GamerGate is not a viable option for this discussion. It lost that ability a long time ago, and just shouldn’t be used in discussing any of these problems, not about women in gaming or journalism and gaming. It’s a toxic brand.
Personally, I have no idea who is a part of GG, other than hashtags, screenshots of social media exchanges, and loud voices on message boards. But as soon as we stop talking about these important issues with GG references, the better.
As for solving it, who knows for sure? My suggestion is don’t remain silent or uncomfortably snicker the next time someone says something appalling to a woman in the workplace or while playing a game. I don’t care what their kill count is, what professional league they want to be a part of or are already of part of, what game they made that you love when you were a child, and I don’t care if they are founding member of a guild, kick their ass out. If they’re in charge of the group, go find another one. We know ignoring them doesn’t work; that’s been the failed plan for decades. Laughing quietly and then feeling bad about it later, doesn’t work either. That’s also been unwritten plan.
So really we can start by not continuing to use the tools that don’t work, which means actually facing and engaging in conversations and situations that make people uncomfortable. I know that sucks. Gaming is a fun hobby for a lot of us, maybe a little more than that if we wind up discussing things like this on message boards with people like us or who are in the industry itself. No one wants to take the fun out of gaming, but sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better.