You are correct in this respect and I retract what I said. As Tim James noted, it is indeed reaching. The content of a game may well be reasonably judged as racist / misogynist / homophobic etc. but this doesn’t necessarily mean that the creators and consumers who enjoy that content deserve these labels. I think it is worth noting here that, as a easy example of what the gamers community (I hate that they’ve appropriated the word, but there’s nothing that I can do about it) rail against the most, in Ms. Sarkeesian’s FemFreq videos, the criticism is always targeted at the games’ content. So far as I know, the criticism has never been directed against creators or consumers in any of her videos.
This is where I think you are wrong. Yes, readers should indeed be entitled to disagree with how reviews are written, including whether or not there should be discussion of offensive content, and are entitled to express that disagreement. But how that disagreement is expressed is crucial. If a reviewer covering a game remarks that it should have included, say a homosexual romance option, and the gamers community responds with a slew of homophobic slurs and insults directed personally against the reviewer, I do think it would be fair to call them homophobic. Likewise, a gamer who actually does only enjoy playing strong male protagonists and does only enjoy seeing women in subservient roles and as sex objects, an activity that takes place in a private space and isn’t directed against any real persons, may not necessarily be misogynistic. But if he responds to suggestions that games attempt to be more inclusive towards women by calling the women making the suggestions words like “cunt” and “bitch”, an action that takes place in the public sphere and against a real person, I think it would be fair to call them misogynists.
Your comments here suggest to me that you misunderstand the objective and motivation of these critiques. You seem to believe that the idea is to tell what is good for them and to right social wrongs. As usual with such things, I cannot claim to speak for anyone but myself so take whatever I say here with a grain of salt. So far as I understand it, the call for inclusion is first and foremost made for the benefit of the people making the call. To build on your example of the 4k resolution comment, I have partial red-green color blindness. It makes a big difference to me if a game has special UI options to help with this or has even designed the UI with this in mind. As such I have special appreciation for developers who include such options and reviewers who make special note of the presence of such options.
If I publicly make this stance known, it is conceivable that people who do not have red-green color blindness may take exception. Why are devs spending precious development time on a useless feature? These design choices even make the UI uglier! Why is this reviewer talking about stupid shit that I don’t care about? These people are certainly entitled to their opinions. But I will still think they are jackasses.
Similarly a female gamer who generally likes an RPG may feel disappointed that the romance options for a female player character are much more limited than the options for a male player character. A female game reviewer, thinking of the female players who might play this game, may include this point in a review. Do they have the interests of a heterosexual male gamer foremost in mind when they do this? No, they simply think that it would be a good extra feature for female gamers like themselves. Sometimes, things really are that simple. How should they think and act if a male-dominated gamers community respond by insulting them and saying that this game isn’t for women, it’s for men and tell them to go away?
I am a middle-aged, heterosexual male of Chinese ethnicity. I support the call for more inclusivity. Do I support it for the good of the white male gamers, who are already the included? No, I support it for the good of the excluded because I think it is the decent thing to do and because I think games should be for everyone. But I also support it for the good of myself. I think more inclusive games are games that challenge existing tropes, that are more innovative and that are more interesting. By being more aware of the tropes and by making a conscious effort to move beyond them, the games become better and I benefit because I would like to play better games.
This doesn’t mean that I don’t like the things that most males like. I watch porn. I downloaded sex mods for Skyrim. If a videogame has sliders for blood and gore, I turn them all the way up. I still support the call for inclusivity and applaud Ms. Sarkeesian’s videos. This is because I recognize that the videogaming industry is so male dominated that there is absolutely no danger that the male centric tropes will ever go away. I enjoy the male centric tropes too but I don’t want there to be only the male centric tropes because the same shit gets boring after a while. I enjoyed the first couple of times I saw a strip bar level in a game. But Ms. Sarkeesian notes, it seems like right now every “gritty” game feels the need to have a strip bar level. That is just lazy and derivative. Variety is good. Diversity is good.
I see that you edited this comment. I would have called you out for this in its original form.
And that of course is wrong too. But it is also wrong to say that all women online are subjected to similar threats and bigotry and that is just how things are. That is unacceptable and should always be condemned.