Oh the sweet joys of being a dad.
Last night, I awoke to the alarmed screams of the little one. zero-dark thirty. I jumped out of bed, this did not sound like a bit of a nightmare or a lost plushie.
Turned out she had puked and was rolling around in it. I scooped her up, cleaned her, comforted her, put her in clean clothes and sleeping bag and put her to bed in the cot.
Luckily we still have the cot. She’s transitioning to a big-kid bed in her brothers’ room but during her afternoon nappies still uses the cot so the kids’ room is still available for play by the boy and his buddies.
Anyway. She went back to sleep. Time to take care of the mess.
I grabbed a dirty towel and scooped up the puke. It had this godawful acrid stench. Not fresh puke this. Threw it in the bathroom sink. (bad idea!) and went about wrapping up the bedding. Luckily the plushies and blanked had escaped a fate worse than death.
Then I found the sink had clogged. The big ball of partway digested lunch (yes I could identify it, and it was her lunch, not her dinner!) had clogged up the drain and it was stinking up the place something fierce. I have a fair tolerance to filthy shit. I don’t mind dirty diapers or the odd pile of cat-, kid- or dogpuke. But this… Gah.
Now my wife, she has not nearly the tolerance to filth that I have. I did not want the first thing that greeted her in the morning as she’d made ready for another joyous day in the office to be a bathroom sink full of utterly gross puke.
So first I tried helping it down the drain with an old brush. No joy.
Then I set about finding the plunger. Not in the bathroom. Not in the toilet. (remember it’s deep night!) ah! le voila! in the kitchen cubpoard beneath the sink. But of course!.
And I started plopping and trying to get the filth to go down. It refused. I dispaired and looked at the problem. I gritted my teeth, put a pail beneath the blasted thing and set about carefully taking the drain apart.
The bulgy part that is supposed to take the clogs came off. I expected it to sploosh all over my arms at that time, but it didn’t. Oh fuck me. I took off the pipe but that goes up to the sink itself. That’s when it drained.
The pipe had clogged with puke and shit but mostly hair. Long thick black hair. My wifes’ hair. I had to pry the long filthy knots from the bits of drainage until they were open enough for water (and future bits of puke) to freely flow again. At 02:45! I carefully reassembled the thing. Cleaned the tools. Cleaned myself. Put the tools away. Went back to bed.
And at 07:30 daughter-dear cheerfully announced her wish for play! and food! and drink! yay!
I feel both shitty from not having slept well and having had to do a filthy and difficult job at night and I feel fucking awesome for being a superbad dad who just took care of shit.
Tell me I’m awesome.