Yes, I was definitely talking about moderation. I should have just singled out the example. I feel like gman should have fallen under this moderation a lot earlier based on what many other forum goers were saying and specifically certain posters. I don’t want to speak for them but I think that they would argue that they were sounding the alarm but were ignored, and only because gman lied to you (and by transitive property, all of us) was he ever moderated out of there. I don’t think most of us want you to wield the ban hammer aggressively or without cause, but I think you guys need to listen more carefully to what we’re saying.
I think a good deal of the problem is this sort of thing. 10 people come and complain about someone. 10 people come in his defense. You might view that as a net 0, a tough call. But you should maybe look at it as 10 people are complaining about someone, and that’s that. You have 1 vs 10, not 10 vs 10. You can ban the one or lose the 10, either from the thread, subforum, or the whole forum altogether. We’re not being unreasonable here, even though I feel like the response was exactly that. “You’re being unreasonable, be adults about this, grow up, conversations in real life don’t have ban hammers so you need to learn to live with it”. But we are on this forum debating shit all the time and how many times are you being asked to ban someone? Almost never (as far as I can tell… I’m excluding spam from this, obviously that gets called out often). We are all here being reasonable having spirited debate all of the time so you shouldn’t immediately be questioning of our motives and saying that we are being unreasonable this one time. You should trust us more. I know it’s asking a lot of you to just believe folks and ban someone. I wouldn’t want to be in your shoes, trust me. But the alternative is alienating those of us who are calling for you to help.
Edit: To tie all of this back to the ignore discussion, many of the same people asking for moderation are also asking for ignore features. I think it’s pretty obvious why this is true.