In normal language, racial prejudice is more or less synonymous with racism, only with racism there’s some element of hokey theory about why some races are supposedly superior or inferior to others, IOW, in normal language, racism is “racialism+prejudice”. “Prejudice+power” is exactly the sort of worthless ideological bullshit I’ve been talking about (abstraction of “power”).
Again, this happens because you refuse to agree on common language with other people. To them, a black person can be prejudiced but cannot be racist.
What absolute twaddle. You don’t “agree on common language”, common language is something that pre-exists that you participate in; it’s the precipitate of the multitude of individual, idiosyncratic, personal usages, just as prices on the market are the precipitate of all the pairwise “sell/not sell, buy/not buy at that price” interactions; the dictionary is analogous to a list of common prices for things.
You can agree or disagree on definitions, and you can “agree”-in-use, in the sense of happen to use words in the same way; but you can’t “agree on language”. The very concept is nonsensical, it turns language into a fetish. To say you “agree on common language” is like saying you “agree with prices”.
Words don’t mean something by an act of common fiat. Well, they can do, but the result is a religious text.
That is not the normal use of “harassment”.
The normal use is, “to annoy or bother (someone) in a constant or repeated way”.
Legally, one episode of unwanted contact is may be sufficient.
Even if that were true (which it doesn’t appear to be - most of the legal definitions involve “conduct on more than one occasion”, or “systematic and/or continued, unwanted and annoying”), the legal use is not necessarily the normal usage. At any rate, under no normal definition of harassment is looking at someone, or complimenting them on their looks, harassment. Nor is receiving in your inbox, in response to a public pronouncement of yours, a bunch of emails that disagree with your pronouncement.
And here is the problem. You are starting with the premise that you have the right to prove others wrong, the right to try to change the minds of strangers.
Of course I do, everyone does, by virtue of the right to free speech, which may be critical, and may purport to demonstrate that a person is wrong. Whether they think the criticism is valid, or let it change their minds, is up to them. “Proving someone wrong” is not an aggressive magical act that intrudes into another’s psyche and diddles with it.
But some people do not want to change their minds, they do not want to be proven wrong, and they are not interested in what you have to say. That’s their right. Just leave them alone.
When people don’t want to change their minds that’s called dogmatism. That people certainly do have a right to not be interested in what one says is irrelevant to the question of whether they are closed-minded or not. They don’t need your misguided white knighting either.