My son Henry is 7½. I’ve been slowly introducing him to various games, starting with the zillion Lego games (Lego Movie, most recently), and most notably a lot of Plants vs Zombies 2 and some Just Cause 3 – with a de-emphasis on the shooty bits, just exploring the open world and driving and flying around and exploring stuff.
I started playing Red Dead Redemption on my Xbone and it was just so damn good after two hours in that I wanted him to share part of the experience with me. So we’ve been playing that together. But:
- there is some f-bomb dropping
- there is (western) violence
- there is a real emphasis on shooty bits
- there is shooting and skinning of animals
- there is one sex scene I plan to AVOID (I looked it up so I know when it happens)
Luckily the scene with the naked hanged guy was before I started playing it with him.
I felt particularly bad because his 4 year old sister (one of a set of twins) happend to be watching us play, and then after shooting a “bad guy” said:
Skin him!
I was mortified, but then I realized she’s just logically following along: we skinned all the animals we killed, why not skin… that one… too? It’s what we do with the things we kill, right?
I’m probably going to hell.
Overall RDR is not really that violent, and if you squint your eyes you could class it under “cartoon violence” like Plants vs Zombies 2, though the enemies are obviously human avatars they are not quite real enough to be, y’know, actual human movie actors. I also like that we can have discussions about honor and doing ‘good’ and ‘bad’ things and how that affects the game and the way people react to you. We also regularly discuss why, in games, we do things we would (and could) never do in real life – because it’s not real.
Still, that little ambient event where a dude knifes a prostitute in the street… I have been avoiding that one. (I assume you can interrupt it? I tried to once and got a bounty.)
Anyway, I feel a little bad about this because I don’t want to rush his childhood or anything, but RDR is so damn great and I want to play through it with my son – I want him to have that experience with me, and be a part of these next-gen open world games that are looming on the horizon.
(As incredible as GTA5 and RDR both are, they were designed to fit into the anemic PS3. Rockstar has not yet released a truly next-gen open world game, where the minimum system spec is a proper 8GB x86 box like the PS4 or Xbone. I can’t wait.)