Why don’t you just send me money? Are you afraid you’ll be worse off? You’ll still have all of the possessions you have now.
Of course. It’s not like the money comes from nowhere.
It’s pretty straightforward. If I spend $100,000 on something, and you get it for free, I’m worse off than you. In particular when I’ve spent $100,000 on something, and then I have to pay for yours too.
If you don’t believe that, why don’t you just buy me a duplicate of everything you buy for yourself. You shouldn’t have a problem with that. You still have what you bought for yourself, so you’re no worse off.
You literally didn’t even answer my question. Why not pay off your neighbor’s mortgage? Are you afraid that you will be worse off, if they are made less poor?
Would you have a problem if everyone under the age of 40 were just given free food that you paid for? Housing? Is there a reason we should limit this to college? Why would any of this bother you - because they would be less poor?
Ultimately, I worked very hard to pay off my student loans. Not wanting to pay off everyone else’s unless I get my money back has nothing to do with “it was hard for me, so it should be hard for everyone else.” It has a lot more to do with my not enjoying what I do for a living, but doing it anyway to pay back my debts, and having to continue to work to earn money for retirement that I would already have if I hadn’t paid off those loans. I could have, for example, put all of the money I used to pay my loans off into my home. Instead, I have a mortgage, because I focused on paying off the student loans. I’d really rather not have to work longer to pay off someone else’s debts too.
Why should I be put in a worse financial position (40s, with a mortgage that would have been paid but for my student loans)? Why should someone who is 25 be able to start plowing all of his earnings into his home, while I 20 years later pay his loans so he can do that, while I also still pay my own mortgage?
It’s frankly inequitable, and to suggest it is simply a matter of “It’s not harming you,” is ridiculous.