Unfortunately, Last time I looked, MM doesn’t work. I just installed a new OS, and haven’t looked if they have a new version from the last time I installed it (sometime last fall). At the time, they had no plans to include video support.
I have an Ipod touch, so to avoid itunes (filthy program that it is), I just use MM for music and AirSharing for pics and video. Works like a charm for me.
Before you give up entirely: are you running Win 7 64 bit? And did you install the 64 bit iTunes package? I haven’t had a problem with my Nano or iTunes but I’ve heard that the 32 bit iTunes package can cause problems.
I thought I was, but installed the 64-bit client just to be sure.
No dice on the videos as I still can’t add them to the library.
Also Air Sharing was a wasted buy since on large transfers it hangs with only five seconds left and looses connection - might be my network, but other computers on the network can transfer large files fine.