If I may. . .
I know that I’m still very new at this (level 16 now, and I’ve played ~100 games), and that I still do lots of galling things. I don’t mind suggestions/prodding etc. I understand that in the heat of the battle, people will get more animated when they say things just as a matter of course. I think I’m pretty thick skinned too. But I gots limits.
Lately - and this came up with you once or twice when we laned together but this is by no means limited to you - I’ve had people barking at me to use skills a good bit. Good version of that: you instructing me on when to use Tryst’s “E” on Mundo. I did not know that. I still lack a lot of that specific “this for that situation” type knowledge, and I’ll only learn that playing and learning from you guys.
But sometimes - and this happened with you that one time - I can’t use a skill because it’s on refresh (or worse, I’ve been silenced/stuned, but I’m more looking at the refresh scenario). I don’t mind repeatedly mentioning it, but I probably came off a touch expasperated when I replied that time. Heat of battle and all that. Sometimes -and this doesn’t apply to you at all - people have gotten increasingly exasperated with me in those scenarios. the requests for the skill get more, well I could say excited. Shrill? Yeah, I could say shrill. There are those sorts of troubled sighs sometimes - you know, like “sigh, you are suck a fucking idiot”. Again, this does not apply to you. Alas, my characters are subject to the same laws of physics as everyone else’s. If they don’t have abilities that have alternate cooldown mechanics (like Kog’s artillery), I have to wait just like everybody else. But hey, I bet people asking me to use it more often will make them cooldown more quickly. So maybe I should shut up about that.
What I don’t like at all is the very obviously intended to be criticism commentary like, “don’t feed X, because of stacks”. Yes, I may or may not have just had a stupid death (in one recent situation like this, that was true. But in another, it wasn’t). I do like someone pointing out “X is getting stacks” as a reminder. I know that giving that person more stacks is bad. Saying, after I die, that I’ve just done bad by giving them more stacks is sort of counter productive. I’d much rather the person in question shut the fuck up and keep their own deep insecurities in a cage. Failing that, feel free to call me a dick, and understand that I might respond in kind. This does not apply to you, McKnight; I don’t recall you ever having done this. But, you know, other people have.
I also don’t like having every last action I make criticized (especially repeatedly), whether they were right or wrong. I believe that generally comes from someone wanting to explain why I was wrong, but having to do so in the heat of battle, which is a rather more complicated scenario and it’s much easier to come off the wrong way (or take things the wrong way) in such a scenario.