The big picture on weight is that it’s a whole mind/body issue which requires a holistic health care AND lifestyle approach, and for overweight people, is NOT easy to manage. So in that context, I can actually see the pushback against the simplistic “weigh people all the time approach”.
I get the frustration of many patients - the most common approach of the health care system to weight issues is the simplistic “weigh the person and then lecture the fuck out of them if they are over X pounds” which is not a helpful approach.
Although I continue to feel the numerical magnitude of the health impacts of weight is exaggerated in popular imagination, it’s also true that there are meaningful negative impacts from being overweight. Problem is, we as a society and as a health care system do a truly shitty job of addressing this.
For example, there is very good evidence that overweight people feel the urge to eat more frequently than the non-overweight. Why is that? There are many theories but for many people the causes are complex and may involve many different factors. Truly helping a patient lose weight is going to require looking at behavioral issues AND psychological/psychiatric issues AND environmental issues AND personal/family/work/lifestyle issues AND and and.
And our health care system does a truly shitty job of addressing system issues like that. That’s why I can see patient pushback on constant weighing not being stupid shit.
Here’s one of the key things to think about: there is good evidence that non-overweight people think that maintaining a healthy weight is not that hard b/c for them it is not in fact that hard. It’s one of those self fulfilling situations: non-overweight people tend to have lower rates of hunger urges, etc. such that it’s easier to manage. That’s why (for many folks) they are non-overweight to begin with. Now some people do manage weight successfully by virtue of great effort, but it’s also true that many overweight people expend great effort only to be unsuccessful. The failure rate of diets is shameful.
So there’s two big issues here: on the one hand, as an overweight person I think that our society deeply underestimates the difficulty of maintaining a healthy weight for those with weight problems, but it is also true that I and people like me would be healthier if we could manage a healthy weight. But our society sucks at providing the kind of deep, multilayered, holistic help that would actually improve outcomes.
And then lastly, there is also some current research on brain development and hunger urges showing fairly interesting findings that the nutrition levels of prior generations, particular mothers and maternal grandmothers, affect current generation weight. It is possible that it will turn out that deep, even generational, brain development issues are involved, and that truly managing weight is going to be a multi-generational deal, for at least some people. (This last part is speculative and relatively new - but my prior paragraphs are backed up by pretty good science from my understanding.)