I suspect this was intended to be in the HW forum, but what the heck, I’ll respond here anyway. :)
There’s a thread over in HW about wireless routers that has a lot of good info, including pretty recent stuff towards the end.
Based on recommendations there and other places, I went with an Orbi setup and have been pretty happy. I’m on Webex calls 6-8 hours a day, and my wife is periodically on Zoom and/or streaming movies. Likewise, I don’t have problems gaming on the weekend when she’s on a Zoom call teaching knitting or spinning lessons.
No idea how good or bad the vendor provided stuff compares, unfortunately.