IMO, that post was sketchy. I wouldn’t want to be welcomed like that. What kind of response did it elicit? He felt the need to clarify to you that he was a male. Hello? I mean it’s fine, because it’s already done and in the past, but for the future you really need to know that shit was sketch. Maybe get to know a new person before you hit them with your fav Star Trek gifs with the silly text.
Also, you are trying to imply something about me being fucked up about gay people, but that’s not even true.