Mmm, let’s see.
Astral Chain works very well handheld.
Valkyria Chronicles 4 is really good.
Fire Emblem is less of a dating sim than previous installments (although it still has some components of that)
Other than the ones you mention:
Hollow Knight is a modern classic (though people are put off by its difficulty/length)
Mario Odyssey is good.
Bayonetta 2
They are about to release Dragon Quest XI
If you like fighting game, Dragon Ball FighterZ