Nah, it’s unclear because the moment you tell someone they have it better, they look around at their miserable life and shrug, confused. Then they get defensive. But we know this, it’s not news.
Then when they balk they’re accused of pussy-footing around, painting them as wrong and part of the problem. They don’t take this well and they get angry and start pointing out exceptions and perceived double standards. But at this point they’re just following the script, no surprises here.
Eventually they’ll gleefully wallow around in their willful ignorance with other like-minded people who didn’t appreciate being told how much better life is for them by people who don’t know anything about them. And they wear this ignorance like a badge of honor, happy to watch you flail about trying to make them understand, because they know what they’ve been through, and it doesn’t match the reality you’re trying to sell them. But we’ve already been over this a million times, so obviously this latest attempt to inform didn’t work either, and it almost seems like you’ve made an enemy out of a once-neutral and unengaged third party.
By this point you’ve lost more ground than you might have gained by bringing up the issue without trying to paint uninformed people as inherently bad in some way, no matter how tenuous their connection to whatever major systematic problem that happens to see Crayons named after them. And by this point they smirk whenever they see these “flesh-colored” Crayons, where they’d never throught twice about them before.
The issue is confusing because by the time you’re explaining the Crayons, ignorant people have already felt unjustifiably attacked enough to make them fortify their position, which to them means defending the honesty of their own existence up until the moment the veil was uncerimoniously ripped from their eyes. To them, getting them to change at this point means getting them to admit they didn’t earn what they have in life, nor did their parents, or anybody else they might have respected; and that their individual tragedies and hardships haven’t impeded their progress in the grand scheme of things–which they-re unlikely to do. So you might call this attitude pussy-footing around, but they call it embracing “common sense.”
I’m not implying your take on privilege isn’t 100% right, but I do think there might be better ways to educate people so that it makes more sense to them without automatically making an enemy of them in the process. We need people to be receptive, but too many times it seems like the speaker is just as happy to see these people dig their heels in, if for no other reason than it reinforces their claims that such an audience is willfully out of touch and maliciously obtuse.
Typed on a phone, so expect typos or whatever.