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There’s a LOT wrong with having an affinity for Wes Anderson films. May lead to wearing scarves when it’s not snowing and being a general douchebag.

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Well, she’s going to a burlesque show.

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And you’re not going along? For shame!

;)

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Just scheduled date number 3 with the woman from OKC that I will call “museum girl” for the sake of clarity from now on.

Second date went great. Had a really nice picnic at a local national forest and despite the 100 degree weather it was rather pleasant in the shade due to a fairly consistent breeze. One of the many things we had talked about in our previous correspondences was actually the game of chess. I happen to have a really nice portable set and she actually requested that I bring it along to play a couple of games. Chess on a date? Unusual to say the least, but I’m sure as hell not going to complain! We munched on some finger food and played for about an hour and a half before taking a short hike (less than a mile) along one of the walking trails. Like the first date, we had no trouble talking about almost anything and everything. Still “clicking” on the second date is one of the things I (and probably many other people) have had trouble with in the past so I’m happy that so far it isn’t an issue. We’ll see about date number 3…

Overall I have no real complaints.

As I said originally, we’ve now scheduled date 3 and this time we’re going to a drive in movie theater (cliche I know). Worst case scenario I get to see The Expendables (her choice of movie believe it or not) for fairly cheap (tickets are $5). Hopefully we can keep up the great dates.

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Who won?

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We only played two games and I won both. I seriously considered letting her win, but she must have read my mind or something and specifically told me not to. I considered whether she was just messing with me and decided to try to win the first game to see how she reacted. She didn’t seem put off by losing so I kept playing normally and won the second game. Both games were pretty close (especially the second one) so it was definitely competitive. We both wanted to play more, but the breeze was dieing and it was getting insufferably hot just sitting there. If there had been a third game it probably would have been a tossup or maybe worse odds for me. She definitely seemed to be getting much better as we played.

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I did, as it turned out. It was quite fun, if sadly sans air conditioning.

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That ‘straight but curious’ guy sent me another message on PoF. Subject line: Hi. Body of message: blank.

I decide to be nice and reply back. Body of my reply: Hi. (I don’t want to tax his mind.) He reads and deletes the message. This is the kind of quality interaction you just don’t get face-to-face! Not that I want to meet this guy face-to-face. Ever.

Meanwhile, the other PoF guy – the nice one that I’ve met twice – claims to be ‘crazy busy’ but still repeated the suggestion that we get together for a movie or something. I reply with some suggestions and he answers back after another week or so, saying that we should probably wait until after his trip to Ontario, but it’s still ‘top of the list!’ He doesn’t say when the trip is, how long he is going for or anything else. He asks me what I’ve been doing. I answer and will probably get a reply to that in a week or two, perhaps. This feels like a weird, extended brush-off but maybe he really is simply ‘crazy busy’.

Also, guys in their 60s and 20s have been looking at my profile lately.

I think I hate Internet dating now.

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Is it normal for women to be more sensitive/achieve orgasm more easily when they are high?

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Yes45

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Really? Hmm. I’m going to need another stepladder.

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hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Depends on the high.

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It also depends on the woman.

A lot of women, for a range of social reasons, don’t feel comfortable with their own bodies and with sex, particularly as related to orgasm. There’s social stigma related to being considered “slutty” if the enjoy sex, religious based stigmas, and even (socially constructed) fears of the actual parts “down there”. So, it’s not uncommon for a person with those sorts of hang-ups to only be able to relax when in an altered state, which can be due either to the physical effects of the drugs, or the psychological effects of having a license to “let go”.

One of the women’s organizations at my college used to have “Love your Body Day” on the green every semester in an attempt to educate men and women alike, and to eliminate those kinds of problems.

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Being high removes any inhibitions she may have in regards to faking it.

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Ok another two week update…I really don’t know what to make of this update.

Jack and Lucy kept sending us emails till i sent the Dear John email. Haven’t heard from him since even though I said we thought they were a cool but outside my wife’s age group. It’s understandable I guess.

The chick that runs the poly group has limited the amount of time she calls me. We talk once every couple days now. I asked Mrs. Supersport what happened and she doesn’t know other than she wanted her to stop calling so much in the evenings.

I was talking with the neurologist’s wife and she told me she told her husband that she wants only females for awhile. I don’t know if she is testing us or not but I was like cool and do what makes you happy. We got dinner plans with them next week. Dude is always working though but I txt talk to him about once a day.

The meteorologist and his wife cancelled but are coming over this Saturday for dinner. Mrs. Supersport and I are not as into them as we were before because of some other couples we met since then. I think it is because they never call/txt but maybe once every two weeks. Granted, we know they are swinger types but still. However, if things go well, I will keep you updated.

Our third came back from New York. We had her stay the night last week and while she was over, we talked about what we been doing. She wasn’t into the swinging thing but wants to go to the poly meetings with us. So more to follow on that.

The Kauai couple are getting divorced. It really happened that fast. I guess the husband wasn’t into it after all and asked her to stop. She told him she wouldn’t so there you go. We pretty much stayed out of that other than saying if they needed anything, we would be there.

So other updates…

Ran into our first single guy posing as a couple. I can’t believe how ignorant he sounded when he was trying to make up excuses to why his girlfriend couldn’t come. Then he asked me if I was bi? I told him I wasn’t but thanks for asking. HAHAHA. I really don’t get why he has to lie though. There are so many couples out there looking for single guys it just amazes me he would have to resort to something like that. Eventually I had to block him to keep from getting spam emails from him.

Went out with two military couples.

Once couple has been married 18 years and he is a Command Sgt Major. Totally cool guy and his wife is flat out sex appeal. We stayed out with them till 2am eventually ended up eating taco bell in the parking lot with them and just having a blast. Ms. Super and myself really think this couple is probably the ones we are looking for a long term thing. Not only that, but they got into it the same way we did; with friends and were solely with them like we were with ours. A LOT in common experiences here with this couple.

The other military couple are younger. He is 28 and she is 25. Our first couple that is younger than either Ms. Super or myself. Totally cool guy and him and I are like Money Train. I am Woody and he is Wesley. Anyways, him and his girlfriend (little asian girl which is totally my thing) have been dating for about a year but went into dating understanding that they wanted to do this lifestyle so there was no misconceptions. I probably share the most in common with this guy since he is in IT, loves working on cars, digs restuarants and movies. Funny thing was, when he approached us, and we said sure we would love to meet you guys, he asked me if him being black would be a problem. I said are you fucking kidding me. :P We had a great lunch and looking forward to our next date.

Ms. Super has become The Scheduler. She is definitely more grounded than I am, because I would schedule something every night if I could. So to keep things cool between us, she is now doing all the scheduling.

Friday we are going out with another military couple but we are not sure how that is going to work. It is really tough to figure out how these couples are until after the first date. There is not a lot of txting/communicating going back and forth till after that first meeting. I have yet to find somebody who likes to converse as much as myself and I think I might be a little abnormal when it comes to it.

Anyways, thats about it for now…

edit: and one last thing, out of OKC, SLS, Swingtowns, and AFF, AFF has been the best site out of all of them to meet people. Less Flakes.

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I’m going to come clean and admit that I’ve been lurking in this thread since the beginning but never posted because hell, I’m an old married guy and really don’t miss dating at all. But I wanted to pop in and tell Supersport that your posts are damned interesting. It’s a window into a lifestyle that I don’t fully understand but I appreciate your openness about how you and your wife approach things. Hope things go well for you two.

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Good to hear your endeavors are going well, Supersport! :)

That surprising to hear about AFF. I had always heard that AFF had a bad rep as far as spammers/scammers/camgirls goes, but maybe that only applies to the singles-dating scene, not the couples-dating scene?

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Maybe. It seems to me that there are a lot of single guys meeting people on there. One thing we have heard in common throughout when it comes to single guys is that having a profile that is laid back, respectful, outgoing, but showing that you are somewhat adventurous will get you lots of responses.

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I know it wasn’t meant that way, but from this day forward the phrase “eating taco bell in the parking lot” is going to be a euphamism in my mind. :o

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Supersport’s adventures are very interesting. I could never get my wife into that sort of thing, though she’s given me full permission to do what I want sexually. I’ve never taken her up on it though, as it doesn’t seem fair if we aren’t both doing it. Anyway, keep those updates coming, Supersport. Fascinating stuff.