You make it sound so complicated. I mean, I get it, to an extent, but I usually just buy some new clothes.

Among other advantages, I believe swing dancing is entirely compatible with porn.

Holy huckles I may be the luckiest man alive, or at least I feel like it. I messages a girl about a month back and she got back to me a few weeks after that and oh my god are we hitting it off. We finish each others sentences, she says what I’m thinking or vice versa. She’s the only person I’ve met that I feel like I can be completely and absolutely myself with.

The next step is to invite her onto qt3 were you will make mushy posts about one another.

Not sure if you’re being snarky, but buying yourself new clothes is a great step to feeling more confident.

She’s a MAN, baby!!

Seriously tho, congrats – enjoy it, revel in it, and best of luck to you both.

Congratulations. Great to hear.

Just remember - you’re on drugs right now. For serious. No tattoos. Trust me on that one.

A couple of weeks is not a very good time to start thinking that you’ve found your true love. Makes it that much harder when she inexplicably decides that you’re not good enough for her.

Dude, I knew I was going to marry my wife the night I met her. That was close to 25 years ago and we’re still together and doing great.

And there are plenty more cases where people that felt the same way ended up getting divorced or were never actually in love. Just sayin’.

Psst…she’s actually your long lost sister.

Aww, Pogo, don’t be a buzzkill. Let the guy enjoy himself. Hopefully he’ll post a picture of the tattoo he gets of her name. :)

As long as he’s also wearing the sweater she knitted him.

In all honesty, I’m glad he found someone to give him that feeling. I’m going to take credit for it due to my contributions to this thread.

Lol well we’ll see in a month how things are going. Reading this thread has been good though, good advice and in general it just made me decide to get myself out there. Something that’s good even if this doesn’t work out.

On the 19 I’ll be coming back from work and we’re doing a joint birthday celebration. Plaans I need to make them, custom cake maybe? I’m not sure, something sure to wow tho. Because frack 10 days apart sucks.

I love you. You owe me a new computer though, I spit soda all over this one.

No snark, honest! I love clothes; I buy new clothes because I’m a vain, vain man not necessarily because I need more confidence (though it doesn’t hurt).

But do you finish each other’s… sandwiches?

I find your last sentence kind of weird. This is the first person you’ve met that you feel you can be yourself around? What do you do around everyone else? Be someone else? Be half of yourself? Do you have some sort of eccentric, bizarre personality trait that most people wouldn’t accept? I try to be myself around everyone, regardless of what they think. This rubs some people the wrong way, because I can be a pretty caustic person, but I really wouldn’t want it any other way.

Your post is awesome and goes to the whole “water always finds its own level” thing I was talking about later. The key to getting into a healthy relationship is to first get healthy. When you are in a good space and happy about yourself and your place in the world you will attract women who are in a good space and happy with their places in the world.

Not that Morberis needs me to defend him but this seems like kind of a harsh response to a common feeling. He’s met someone that he feels at ease around and who accepts him for who he is. That’s an incredible feeling. It does not mean the rest of his life is a lie. 'Just that he has way more chemistry with this woman than he does with other people he’s dated.

There are two more steps after that, i was surprised no one else jumped in and continued the meme.