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Scrax
1683
Because it has only gotten me in trouble.
I don’t really like to fool around with people unless I (and they) mean it, and second date stuff is just too early. Either the other person gets too heavily involved afterwards, or I get too heavily involved and I learn things about the other person which would have caused me to not fool around with them, if I had known it earliar.
Maybe it won’t make a difference, but I’m going to (try) a different way than what I have been doing. I have a bad habit of rushing into things anyways, and it doesn’t really work out for me.
ElGuapo
1684
God I hate it when girls do that.
“Well normally I jump right into bed with you, but I’m trying something new now and waiting.”
Oh, well glad I could be the test subject!
Scrax
1685
Well for what it’s worth, I’m usually the one who pushes things to get physical, and it doesn’t work out. So, I’m going to be good this time and chill out, see where things go. It’s hard for me to find guys I’m actually interested in going out with and I don’t want to screw it up from the get-go.
ElGuapo
1687
Second date? Who do I look like, Jon Danger?
(just kidding Jon)
Scrax
1688
Everyone knows that the first date is designated for the smoochin.
Scrax
1690
9-hour second date and I feel really good about myself.
Third date:
Scrax: Well, I’ve been good but I think it’s time we got to know each other a bit better. wink
17 Hour Man: I don’t believe in sex.
Scrax: That’s funny, it sounded like you just said you don’t believe in sex. Haha!
17 Hour Man: Yeah, that’s right. No sex for me. Ever!
Scrax: But I waited!
17 Hour Man: You are on the path to enlightenment. Patience, my friend! gives the thumbs up, making sure to avoid possible body contact
8 and 9 hours? What, are you guys hiking or something?
Also, 17 Hour Man sounds like it should be in a beer commercial or something.
Scrax
1693
No, no, no. Sex is totally acceptable. He just can’t ejaculate in order to preserve his chi.
Rimbo
1695
why the hell did i unsubscribe this thread?
Griddle
1696
I guess me being 37, I just don’t give a flying fuck any more. I figure if things are going to happen they will. You can no more hold back the flow of water from a broken dam, than hold back mutual chemistry. Go with the flow, not like I’m an expert, but I can tell you this much… Mutual chemistry is mutually satisfying if let to grow uncontrolled.
ElGuapo
1698
You know, a thought. I’ve jumped on internet dating recently. OKCupid, to be exact.
You know what internet dating makes you? Lazy. You can sit at your desk at work and talk and flirt and set up dates for 2, 3, 4 nights a week. In between work stuff and going to lunch and getting coffee and all the other stuff where “meeting someone” becomes just another thing to do. Then you’re looking for days NOT to have dates. When you go out, you don’t really strike up conversations like you normally would, you don’t interact as you normally would, as you already have dates lined up. And in a large city, at least, the possibilities just seem endless. There is just wall of people to date that keeps growing.
Internet dating makes you lazy towards to the non-internet dating world, I’ve found. I’m not sure how I feel about this yet.
JoshV
1699
So its like being in a relationship? I don’t think online dating is for the person who can easily strike up conversations with strangers and who mingles with lots of different people socially. I also think you’re probably overscheduling dates if its starting to feel like a chore and detracting from meeting new people in other ways.
For me, at the time, being from out of state, my friends were my co-workers, who were all male, and my hobbies are all male dominated. Serious shortage of females, so it was much easier to find some to chat with online. I suppose the alternative is to take up an activity I wouldn’t really like, just to meet women.
ElGuapo
1700
Yes, those are good points Josh. But along my point, and maybe this is not valid for you, is that online dating influences your need/desire to start up an activity to meet people in the first place. I won’t argue whether you will enjoy it or not. I’m certainly not arguing that online dating is bad . . . it certainly isn’t. Hell, I met my last two serious relationships online.
It’s just my opinion that it makes it so much easier to surf around that it makes you lazier about meeting people in real life. It sucks you in!
