Feel free.
I think that things like racism are a big deal. I’m perhaps not always as quick to condemn things as racism as some, but when something’s obviously racist, it serves no useful purpose to pretend that its not. What I learned this cycle is that when it comes down to choosing party vs principles, I choose my principles. I will not compromise myself by pretending that racism isn’t what it is. If shit’s going to go down that road, I can at least say I fought against it.
I was not a fan of Clinton on many topics, but those things I disagreed with her on, I did not find morally reprehensible. Trump was different. He said things which were morally reprehensible, mixed with things that simply made no sense. I felt no desire, whatsoever, to be associated with that.
This actually occurred to me, but I decided to go with terminology like, “act like a man” because I felt that such a phrase would resonate with someone who voted for Trump. Even women who did, as they’ve essentially internalized that perspective.
Yeah, it’s perhaps not the most politically advantageous approach. But I think it’s wrong to allow someone to act on such beliefs, and not even have it called out as the bigotry it is.
I’m not saying that those people who supported Trump have no legitimate grievances. They do. And those grievances should be considered. But at the end of the day, they chose the oppression of others, in order to try and save themselves. Not only is this ultimately futile, as they won’t be saved by this, but it represents the ultimate compromise of their own humanity.
Their miserable situation (for those actually in misery… many of Trump’s supporters were just rich old white folks, who feared losing some trivial slice of their relatively large accumulated wealth) is largely due to others not caring about them, and regarding them as less important and deserving of respect. And as a result, they chose to do exactly the same to another, different group. When faced with the repercussions of being de-humanized, they chose to de-humanize others. It won’t help them climb the ladder, but it at least throws someone else back to the bottom, giving the illusion that they’ve made progress. And isn’t this how bigotry always functions as a means of control?
Honestly, I alternate between pity and anger at some of these folks. Because they have indeed been left behind as the world has moved on, and it’s easy to condemn them from my loft of relative economic security. So I think that my anger is misguided, thought I am forced to acknowledge its reality. I do not want these people to suffer. As they say, we are punished by our anger, not for it.
There are no doubt some folks who voted for Trump with an absolutely clear conscience. That’s fine. If you honestly believe that what he stands for is good, and just, then voting for him was the correct choice.
But if you know that what he stood for was wrong, you don’t get to pretend like you didn’t vote for it. That you only voted for the good parts. No, you voted for everything that comes down the pike. And if that makes you ashamed, to have it laid bare for you like that? Then that means you made a mistake, and you should look at what led you to that result, and figure out how to improve your decision making process in the future.