Timex, I think you see the problem. Let’s take a good, current example that illustrates this issue:
Number of opposition party members who signed onto the major COVID relief package passed in 2020 under Trump: all of them. (It was unanimous except GOP Rep Massie being an a-hole.) Think about that. After 3+ years of Trump excoriating Dems, abusing his office to target Biden, and all the other many ills of Trump, the Dems were willing to set their partisanship aside and vote, unanimously to pass a package that would be signed into law and implemented (at least at first) by Trump.
Number of opposition party members who signed onto the major COVID relief package passed in 2021 under Biden: zero. Zero in the house, zero in the Senate.
Think about that.
I actually agree that with healthy and normal political parties, bipartisanship can be a good thing, for both policy and political reasons. But that’s not where we are right now. The GOP is really not a normal political party at this point in time (And please let’s not get distracted by whether they ever were; at this point, the GOP is not a normal political party than can be compromised with.)
So, if you accept the reality that the GOP is NOT going to behave reasonably, not going to put country over party, not going to compromise in a sane way, then what?
My view is you remain open to compromise, leave the door open, let the GOP make counteroffers for a reasonable not excessively long window and then if they aren’t anywhere close to compromise, you push forward. Obviously, we can’t do this b/c of Manchin, but that IS the problem.
So with Manchin in the mix, that means we can’t really get anything done other than maybe accepting paltry counter-offers designed to give the GOP some political cover, which hell, 11% is better than 0.