He talked about it, several times. But there’s no indication that he was every serious about it, and Russia doesn’t get to set the terms (see a trend here?) of admission to an alliance they don’t currently belong to. In the end, Russia never applied for membership, so the conclusion I draw from that is that he was never serious about it.
It wouldn’t be easy. First, Putin would have to give up power and have free and fair elections. Then the elected govt would need to make a number of reforms to strengthen and enhance democratic institutions. None of that is easy. But unless you are admitting Russia is incapable of making those reforms, then there’s no reason to believe that they couldn’t be admitted, like every other nation that has entered. The requirements are the same for everyone. Surely if Romania or Bulgaria can do it, Russia can, right?
As for why Ukraine hasn’t been admitted, I have to believe that you are being intentionally obtuse. Ukraine’s govt/democracy has been anything but stable, and corruption is still a big problem. And perhaps the biggest has been the ongoing dispute in the Donbas. NATO wasn’t going to admit Ukraine until that was solved. All of that has been pretty clear and I can’t believe you don’t know that. And this shows the lack of aggression by NATO - they have excluded both Georgia and Ukraine specifically because they don’t want a war with Russia. If NATO were really all that aggressive, you’d think they admit Ukraine/Georgia regardless of any territorial disputes with Russia.
And you, yourself have complained about the Ukrainian govt, so I’m not sure why you think NATO should think differently than you do about it.
I’m not justifying the 2008 decision by 2022. I’m justifying it by Russian history where they seek to dominate their neighbors, which is why countries like the Baltic States, Poland, etc all wanted to join NATO, and which the 2022 invasion of Ukraine is just further evidence. Ukraine isn’t any different, they don’t want to be under the thumb of Russia, right?
And this explicitly wasn’t a NATO operation. You don’t win any points here.
If they think the level of corruption of in the US and Ukraine is the same, then they aren’t really facing the problem in their country realistically. The US ranks 27 on the global corruption perception index, Ukraine 122.
And they never applied nor did they every seek to undertake the reforms that were needed. In fact Putin took them in other direction, towards authoritarianism. I think it’s pretty clear he was never serious. He wasn’t going to give up power, ever.
I’ll leave you with the last word, as I don’t think further conversation is fruitful.