I have very happy memories of playing Traveller a great deal back in my youth (early to mid 80s). We had a regular group that went from 6 - 10 people over the years and we played at least once a week (sometimes twice) well into the wee hours. This was black book Traveller days (pre-Megatraveller) - we had an excellent referee (a fire control officer on a ballistic missile sub, as it turned out) who fleshed out our Traveller game world and could act out NPCs very well. He meticulously planned campaigns and it was great. One campaign that took the better part of a year started out with us as the typical Traveller free trader group and ended up I think with us as despots of a backwater planet. Traveller was great because it was so flexible and paid a lot of attention to economics, politics and culture.
Anyways I never had so much fun gaming since, video games never quite the perfect substitute for it, but at my age and in my circumstances I’ll never be able to regularly play in a PnP RPG again, I think.
So anyway, I’ve never found a video game that really captured the essence of Traveller. A few touched it - Privateer for example (maybe the most Traveller like video game), the Mass Effects a little bit. I agree with your comment on EVE (I like EVE but haven’t logged in, in two months and will probably drop my subscription - just can’t devote the time and regular effort to get a lot out of the game).
I was going to mention Northstar by the same people who made Sword of the Stars, but someone else beat me to it. It looks very promising and is explicitly Traveller-like, just hope a small indie can pull off something so ambitious. I liked SOTS, so maybe they have a chance.
Now what’s this about new Mongoose Traveller books? Is this the T5 edition of Traveller that Marc Miller is supposed to publish sometime soon (the “ultimate” edition - the man is like 70 years old and still working on the game, God bless him).
EDIT: not only did we play Traveller, but we also played starship combat wargames with Traveller rules (which originally featured an AWESOME vector based starship combat system), as well as quite a bit of Striker, the table top Traveller ground combat miniatures game, which was fantastic. “Fire, Fusion, and Steel” was originally part of Striker, the very detailed technical rules for building armored fighting vehicles, guns, aircraft, you name it to use in Traveller. Those rules were so awesome, I had countless hours of fun just designing new grav tanks and artillery pieces.