A couple of years back, I lost about thirty pounds myself. That makes me seem to have been massive, but my body has an equal-distribution policy which many fat people have called “progressive” so while I was definitely out-of-shape, I didn’t look too bad. I didn’t really set out to lose the weight, either - it just sort of happened. Here’s more or less what I did. By the way, I’m not professing to understand anything about the weight cycles of the human body, just summarizing my experience.
-
Stopped drinking all forms of soft drinks. The soft drinks were a killer to me and once I was off them, I didn’t miss the fizzy sugar syrup at all, since all they do is make you feel thirstier. Instead, I now drink massive amounts of water - at least two gallons a day. And while I enjoy the occasional Coke or something, I don’t really crave them and never keep them in the house anymore. This was actually probably the biggest step. Drinking Coke is a bad habit, not really a craving.
-
I’ve always enjoyed walking, but in the evenings, I’d light up my pipe and go for a simple hour’s walk. This is actually a good idea for even people who don’t want to lose weight or keep in shape, just because it stimulates ideas.
-
I stopped snacking and adopted the European model of eating (I was living in Belgium at the time), with a nice meal at around 1 or 2 and then a small cheese sandwich in the evening. Most of these meals were vegetarian. Having an entire day to burn off most of the food you have eaten makes a lot of difference, and, though I enjoy meat, a vegatarian-emphasized diet makes you feel lighter after a meal and also helps with “regularity”.
-
I never ate so much that I was “full”, just satisfied. Actually, even now, I can’t understand why I used to eat to the point where I just felt stuffed and bloated. It is incredibly unappealing. Yet just a few years ago, I could eat a large pizza all by myself.
There were other things that helped, including a tour through the Middle East carrying a 50 pound backpack at all times, but those were the main lifestyle changes I unconsciously made. I remember in horror the idea of a “diet” a few years back, but once I switched into it, it was amazing how little impact it had on my life. I still eat anything I want - the difference is that instead of going out for lunch and wanting to gorge myself on a double quarter pounder with cheese, fries and a milk-shake, I now tend to crave a salad, a light sandwich and a glass of wine. I very rarely get a craving for snacks and when I do, I would tend to make myself a cheese sandwich or eat a couple of cookies instead of drinking a two-liter bottle of coke and an entire bag of Doritos. I also don’t work out besides an evening walk, and although I’m probably 5 pounds heavier than I ideally should be, I’m not in bad shape and I know I could probably lose those 5 pounds if I gave up on my addiction to cappucinos.
Really, the vast majority of people are fat because they have terrible eating habits. Change those and you’ll be all set. I myself didn’t find changing them to be that hard. Good luck!