This attitude is a significant part of the larger problem.
Fact is, -everyone- sucks at something in the game. -No one- is a complete know-everything expert. I’ve been playing these games for years, I’ve certainly mastered the basic skills, but that doesn’t mean anything. There is still much I do not know, and much that I have to learn, even aside from simply playing a new game with some new quirks to figure out.
I will gladly, gladly take any random 4 people into a dungeon with me. Even if they are all rank beginners. Because it does not matter how much one knows, what matters is what one is capable of learning.
Everyone you have ever met, liked, and loved, was at one point, a “random guy.” To completely reject the possibilities to meet and embrace new people is contrary to the entire point of the MMOG genre, which is… to play with lots of different people.
Most of them suck. So what? It’s not all that difficult to identify and then avoid them. Worst case scenario, some numbskull kills everyone. So what? Res, write down the names of the offending parties, and stone out. What have you lost? A few minutes of your life.
The potential for gain is far greater. Some of the best players I’ve grouped with have spoken English as a second language, barely, went into an instance for the first time ever, and had no idea what role their class was to play.
Conversely, nearly all of the worst players I’ve grouped with have been a bunch of closed-minded dumbshits who roll into a group of strangers and expect them all to play “their” way, because that’s what’s always worked for them and their gang of seven buddies that they went to high school with. (And I use the term “worked” loosely.)
Surprise! Lots of people on the Internet have poor social skills. This is an entirely separate failing than that of simple ignorance on how to play the game, with other people, appropriately. The latter is easily correctable within ten minutes, if the former isn’t very egregious.[/quote]
Well Jafd the big problem here is that I’m not you… I don’t like to spend time teaching people how to play the game, I don’t like spending my playing time trying to find out if people are good to play with or not… I already have people who I like to play with. To put it simply I am not looking for the things that you apparantly are… so I’m close minded? I don’t try to force anyone to play my way I just very rarely group with people I don’t know. I can have a perfectly fun and great MMO experience without grouping with random people, if you are unable to do that then that’s your thing. What I was suggesting is that anyone who is having problems with grouping (either because of time or experience) find themselves a guild, i.e. a group of people who have similar playing styles.
Oh and to point out something else nowhere did I say that people who speak english as a second language or have poor communication skills are the people I am trying to avoid… in fact the players I’m trying to avoid the most are the powergamers, the bossy players, and the jerks. In fact I might venture a guess that anyone who feels the need to “correct” someone’s playing style is exactly the person I’m trying to avoid.