You didn’t have a girlfriend until you were THIRTY-FIVE? And we should listen to your relationship advice why, exactly?
Well having seen the pic I do think you should actually verify her age. I think it’s almost certain that you won’t really have very much in common and that you probably will decide pretty quickly not to go out with her again but
Other than that I say go for it. What exactly is “creepy” about it? I’ve never understood this. You’re a guy and you like women. How exactly does it make you a bad person if you’re interested in 20 year old women? It’s pretty stupid that our society treats people like babies until they’re 18. Only a hundred years ago people were routinely married with a kid at 18 or 20 and were considered adults. And they acted like adults too. Now we coddle “kids” until they’re in their twenties and even then they can barely be bothered to take on any adult responsibilities preferring instead to mooch off their parents for a few more years.
no no…my first GF was at 16…my first 14 years older than GF was at 35…jeez.
OK then, my next question is: If you’re in your forties, why do you use the word “peeps”?
a/s/l?
Oh, A was already specified, as was S.
L?
Why do I listen to modern music, why do I play paintball, why do I play computer games…oh yeah, so I’m not old and boring…LIKE YOU.
I think TheRock has proven in another thread that his intuitions regarding the fairer sex need a little… tweaking.
“Chris Hansen, NBC Dateline… What’re you doing here?”
Is it too soon to ask for a separate forum for relationship advice?
Troy
Whats up with “people” and age differences. My sister is married to a guy 14 years older. My boss is a 45 year old woman married to a 34 year old guy. My GF’s Aunt married a man 18 years older. Once people are adults, as long as they are happy with each other and are together for the right reasons, who cares the ages.
Maybe you can hook her up with your other hot tub buddy and get her into porn.
There is a world of difference between 45/34 and 31/20. As you get older, it matters less, I agree. But 20? Her brain isn’t even fully developed yet.
Relative age difference you newb. :D As EpicBoy points out at age 20 to ElG’s 31 there is a vast gulf in life experience. That gap doesn’t exist between you and your 30 year old girlfriend.
Age isn’t as important as maturity is. And there is a world of difference between 41-30 and 31-20 in spite of the math working out the same.
Saying “Age doesn’t matter” and citing individual cases where it doesn’t misses all the vast majority of instances where it proves to be a huge stumbling block.
Not to mention the fact that Guapo is not looking to settle down in any case. I think it’s creepy because she looks 15, and she might have no legs. But I think EG just wants the parts to fit.
Troy
Yes, that’s correct. I don’t play any computer games. That’s why I post on Quarter to Three.
Yes, maturity is definitely the issue…for long term. But for a date, as long as they both want to go out, go for it.
Isn’t she a prostitute? I mean, a hot 20-year-old with a nice pic like that is meeting guys on the internet, 'cause she just can’t find anyone local? Bullshit. Bitch gonna cut you, man.
H.
Would this random website be known as Myspace?
There’s something about that picture that reminds of the creepy little girl from The Ring.
Please be careful.
I don’t know, didn’t you just comment earlier about how the 1/2+7 “guide” makes sense? That your 35/21 pairing didn’t work out, but your 44/30 relationship seems much more sound?